When I was younger it was - you know my dad dressed up in drag on 'Bosom Buddies.' And that was what I was having to deal with at the time. And then around the time that I was into college was when he became statue-worthy I guess you could say.
I only answer to two people myself and God.
Husbands are like fires - they go out when they're left unattended.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.